1 Timothy 3:4 in the King James Version
One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;
Context
3 not a drinker, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous;
4 one who rules his own house well, having children in subjection with all reverence;
5 (for how could someone who doesn’t know how to rule his own house take care of God’s assembly?)